Escort service can seem mysterious to people who have never experienced it. Here are some tips to help you get the most out of your experience.
Respect your escort’s cues. If they say’stop’ or physically recoil, that is a sign that they’re not having fun.
1. Take a shower before your session
It might sound obvious, but your escort will not want to get intimate with you if you smell like cigarettes or body odor. Make sure to take a shower before your session and use mouthwash, as well. Also, if you have any issues with your personal hygiene, talk to a doctor or counselor about them.
It is important to communicate with your escort in advance about what you are seeking from the experience. For example, if you are looking for just oral sex or sexual intercourse, let your escort know. If you are seeking a ‘full service’ experience, your escort will likely supply condoms and lube and may instruct you in how to use them safely.
Your escort will enjoy her time with you more if she can focus on you and what you are asking for. If you are constantly referring back to your mental list of ‘things I want’, she will soon become bored and unenthusiastic.
At the end of your session, respect her wishes and allow her to clean up and gather her things. She will probably need 10-15 minutes to shower and then prepare to leave for her next booking. This etiquette helps ensure that her work is as good as it can be, and that she will be excited to see you again!
2. Wear clean clothes
If you show up for your session in dirty clothes, or smell like end-of-the-day body odor, your playmate will likely be less than excited to spend time with you. This is especially true if they’re in the last stages of their shift.
Wearing clean clothes and smelling good will make you feel more sexy too. And don’t forget to compliment your provider – everyone loves to hear that they look beautiful or handsome. Respect their requests – they know what they like and don’t enjoy in the bedroom, just as you do. Stop if they say ‘no more’, or ask for slower or gentler actions.
3. Have a glass of wine or a gift
When you meet your escort, be friendly but respectful. It’s not polite to discuss the details of your booking before you have met (unless you are discussing a sting). It is also not polite to ask her what she wants in bed (although many escorts will give clues about their interests). Always respect her wishes and never pressure her into doing something she doesn’t want to do. Be sure to bring her her fee right away – most escorts prefer an envelope of cash over a wad of notes! Bringing wine or a gift is also an excellent way to get her in the mood.